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2008.02.18

(Mag2) 感動しながら学ぶ英語・英会話


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■ おすすめ英語学習書
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● コウビルド英英辞典
    http://tinyurl.com/2c243c

    他の英英辞典とは表現方法がかなり違います。私の英語は、コウビルド英英辞典
    のおかげと言って良いでしょう。難しい単語も易しい英語表現で説明して
    あります。英語を英語で考える上でこの辞書を使えば自然と英語で考える
    習慣が身につきます。

    ぜひ、これを座右の辞書としてください。英語がわかる人は、この辞書を
    必ず持っています。

● ロングマン現代英英辞典 4訂増補版 CD-ROM2枚付 <上製版>
    http://tinyurl.com/2u83ae

    すでにコウビルド英英辞典をもっている方は、Second Opinionの英英辞書
    としてロングマン現代英英辞典がお勧めです。特にパソコンでお仕事をし
    ている方には、CD-ROM付がお役に立ちます。

● Hopes, love and dreams in New York 
   −NHK CD Book―NHKラジオ英会話ストーリーブック
                       大杉 正明 (著)
    http://tinyurl.com/68ppk

  この教材は、一度NHKラジオ英会話で放送された物を学習参考書として
  まとめた物です。私は、この教材を今も時々聞いています。登場する人物
  と内容が心に響き、声優の声に恋をしてしまったのです。

  物語に喜怒哀楽があり、最後には感激して涙が出てきてしまうほどの
  ドラマが演出されています。英語学習書を越えた名作英語会話学習書
  です。

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□ 心温まる物語 (自分の意見を英語で表現する訓練)
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             You Become What You Want to Be
             
 As a child, I just wanted to be loved. It wasn't until I grew up that
 I learned how. 
 
                      By Marilyn Joan 
      
 Growing up the fifth of six children was a challenge, the struggle
 for placement and acceptance being the usual issues. Personally, I
 never felt I needed to be heard or seen. Taught to be seen and not
 heard from the time we were born, when we broke that rule we were
 punished severely.

 I had several strikes against me growing up. I had very little
 self-esteem, if any. Our mother had a hair-trigger temper and we
 constantly had to avoid her wrath, learning to fear and not thrive as
 children. 

 Even when we weren't in trouble, we felt like we had done something
 wrong. Talking about love or sex in our house was totally taboo. Our
 home lacked warmth and my fears of incurring my mother's anger
 outweighed my desire to talk to her about very important things that
 should have been dealt with as a child, not as an adult. 
 
 My childhood was short. I always say I graduated from the school of
 hard knocks, and meant it. I was molested between the ages of ten and
 thirteen by four different family friends and a family member. I was
 an alcoholic by the time I was fourteen and a frequent user of drugs
 when I wasn't drunk.

 I was not popular in school, my grades were not great and the only
 thing I excelled at was spelling, which would not carry me far. My
 mom planted the seeds and watered them daily, telling me I wasn't
 smart enough or good enough to reach the goals I set for myself in
 life. 

 I wanted to be a teacher, a stewardess or a nurse. At one time, I had
 many, many dreams. Not one of them was something my mother encouraged
 or thought I could accomplish.

 I made mistakes, too many to mention and some so humiliating that I
 cringe inside today as I recall them. The drugs, the alcohol and the
 self-destructive path I was on were not things I was proud of. 

 I wanted so desperately to change, but I had no idea how. I just
 wasn't good enough to succeed at anything. The only positive thing
 left was my desire to try.

 I started dating a guy when I was thirteen, falling hopelessly in
 love with him. True to form, my mother told me I would never do
 better and on my sixteenth birthday we were engaged. 

 We moved in together after high school and married at nineteen. We
 had two beautiful kids together, and that was the turning point in my
 life. Being a good mother was something I could accomplish.

 Marrying so young was wrong, we both knew it. We were drawn to each
 other for all the wrong reasons. It was bad for him, it was bad for
 me, it was bad for the children, so I started my road to recovery by
 divorcing him. 

 We never harbored any hate or animosity for each other and frankly I
 liked him better once we lived apart. He became a better father and a
 better person and I too became a better human being.

 I began to reinvent and get reacquainted with myself. I faced my
 problems with the help of psychologists and social workers, who
 taught me healthy parenting and life skills. 

 With their help and encouragement I learned to talk with my kids and
 to value them for who they were. I am able to guide them toward
 realizing their full potential through encouragement and emotional
 support. And, I have stayed clean and sober. 
 
 During therapy I remembered the sexual abuse and came forward to have
 the man arrested and charged with his crimes. I felt wonderful,
 vindicated and strong when he was convicted twenty years later for
 the crimes he committed against me.

 I look back with 20/20 hindsight and wonder why my educators never
 picked up on my abuse. The signs were there, I read it in my report
 cards. 

 About a sullen little girl who sulks and wants to be the center of
 attention, and cries. No, I don't want to be the center of attention.
 I just want to be loved. Can't you see that! I remember all the
 incidents as if they were yesterday and have worked hard to move
 beyond feeling like a victim.

 Today I feel lucky. I have a wonderful husband, two more great kids
 and a home in the country, a life far beyond the dreams of a kid
 being drowned in the toilet. 

 I have never beaten my children or belittled them. I overcame great
 odds, faced the loathing and shame, and grieved for the loss of my
 childhood so that the cycle stopped with me. In its place a life
 centered on love and nurturing has taken root and I am careful to
 plant more seeds and water them daily. 


 Reprinted by permission of Marilyn Joan (c) 2004 from Chicken Soup
 for the Recovering Soul by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Robert
 Ackerman, Ph.D., Peter Vegso, Theresa Peluso and Gary Seidler.

 私の回答はこちらで読めます。
http://eigo.undo.jp/content/view/45/28/

Q1: Do you want to be what you want to be?

Q2: What did you feel after reading it?

Q3: What kind of seeds do you want to plant and water them daily?


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□ 編集後記
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 今、Spam Mail Kellerというソフトを使って海外から送られてくるスパムメ
 ールだけをメールサーバー上で自動削除する実験を行っている。私の場合、
 全ての海外のメールを自動削除とは行かないため細かな設定と実験をしない
 と後で困ることになるからだ

 もし、読者の中で海外からのメールは100%必要ないという方がいましたら、
 このSpam Mail Kellerというソフトは、お勧めです。

 ただ、

 よく説明を読んで設定方法を学ばないとうまく使えないと言う難しさがあり
 ますが。興味のある方は、私までお尋ねください。

Hanji

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 ●Writing With Power: Techniques for Mastering the Writing Process
    (ペーパーバック) 
   http://tinyurl.com/27vnoc
   Peter Elbow (著) 

   この本は最近見つけた本だ。Emailで米国の企業とやり取りをする時に
   Writing Skillが求められる。Amazonでこの本の中身の閲覧してほしい。
   なぜ、私がこの本を薦めている理由がわかる。


 ●Ready to Write: A First Composition Text (ペーパーバック) 
    Karen Lourie Blanchard (著) 
  http://tinyurl.com/2s94db

  米国の大学で初めて英語の授業を受けた。まず、習った事は、
  パラグラフの書き方だ。その次が、A41ページのエッセーの書き方だ。
  毎回授業がある度に宿題でエッセーを提出させられた。そして、添削
  された宿題が点数(A, A-, B+, B, B-など)と共に戻ってきた。
  日本で学んだ方法とは、180度違っていた。それが新鮮だった。

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電子出版:  英語/英会話を自分の物にしたい人のための情報発信
発行者:    Norito H.Yoshida
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