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2008.07.11

(Mag2) 感動しながら学ぶ英語・英会話


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___私の読者さんへのメッセージ____________________
  
 今日の英文は、かなり長いです。でも、勇気を与えてくれるかも!
 読んでいて共感する内容が多いです。

         "Gift of Desperation"

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■ おすすめ英語学習書
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● コウビルド英英辞典
    http://tinyurl.com/2c243c

    他の英英辞典とは表現方法がかなり違います。私の英語は、コウビルド英英辞典
    のおかげと言って良いでしょう。難しい単語も易しい英語表現で説明して
    あります。英語を英語で考える上でこの辞書を使えば自然と英語で考える
    習慣が身につきます。

    ぜひ、これを座右の辞書としてください。英語がわかる人は、この辞書を
    必ず持っています。

● ロングマン現代英英辞典 4訂増補版 CD-ROM2枚付 <上製版>
    http://tinyurl.com/2u83ae

    すでにコウビルド英英辞典をもっている方は、Second Opinionの英英辞書
    としてロングマン現代英英辞典がお勧めです。特にパソコンでお仕事をし
    ている方には、CD-ROM付がお役に立ちます。

● Hopes, love and dreams in New York 
   −NHK CD Book―NHKラジオ英会話ストーリーブック
                       大杉 正明 (著)
    http://tinyurl.com/68ppk

  この教材は、一度NHKラジオ英会話で放送された物を学習参考書として
  まとめた物です。私は、この教材を今も時々聞いています。登場する人物
  と内容が心に響き、声優の声に恋をしてしまったのです。

  物語に喜怒哀楽があり、最後には感激して涙が出てきてしまうほどの
  ドラマが演出されています。英語学習書を越えた名作英語会話学習書
  です。

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□ 心温まる物語 (自分の意見を英語で表現する訓練)
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                   Profit From Life's Losses
      We can change our lives-and our businesses-for the better if we
      change our focus.
      
                   By John Chappelear

 Ever notice everyone's on a low-fat diet after the heart attack?

 Everyone has time for their kids after the divorce?

 Everyone's a financial genius after a bankruptcy?

 As managers, supervisors, and executives, we're trained to judge our
 success by the size of our departments, budgets, sales, profits, bank
 accounts, and the deals we make. When I had my own $50 million-a-year
 business, that's what I thought, too. Being a successful CEO, I
 figured if I just worked hard enough, I'd wind up on top. Failure is
 something that happens to the other guys.

 That's when it happened to me. I lost everything. Everything I
 thought was important.

 Money, power, prestige. Gone. My position as CEO? Gone, too.

 Although I didn't know it then, I had been given a gift. A "Gift of
 Desperation" that changed me and my outlook for the better. In the
 end, it made me a more successful person, too.

 We can all recognize a "gift of desperation". It's the "aha" that
 comes at the darkest of times. Speak with anyone who has had a
 life-changing experience, and they'll tell you how much it has led
 them to appreciate each and every day. They have a higher sense of
 awareness and focus on living each day with joy.

 Still need convincing? Look how our country pulled together after
 9-11-01. People actually started talking, connecting--and not just
 our friends and family, but strangers on the street or at the corner
 store. 

 I had clients all over the country remarking something like this: "I
 never really appreciated just how important (blank) was, until now."
 The way that (blank) got filled in varied from person to person and
 organization to organization, but suddenly I could tell they had
 begun to notice that there was more to life than profits and
 possessions. The horror of that experience became a gift to many who
 chose to see the lessons.

 When I received my "gift of desperation" I began to notice, FINALLY,
 something was missing in my life. It wasn't success that was missing.
 It was significance.

 Most CEOs have the same symptoms I did: We have a gorgeous house, but
 are hardly around to enjoy it. We eat at private lunch clubs, but
 we're still hungry inside. Our expensive watches can't keep our time
 from slipping away.

 We have kids, but we may never really appreciate them. I didn't,
 either--until involuntary unemployment kept me home instead of
 frantic and at the office. "Pick me up, Daddy!" my three-year-old son
 kept saying. "It's good for you." Now how did he know that? But you
 know what, he was right.

 Here I had been rushing, rushing, rushing--because I needed
 everything to be perfect. And then I would finally get back to my
 family and friends. I just needed to get all my ducks in a row. Have
 you ever tried to get ducks in a row? I finally realized that I had
 to stop waiting for my life to get perfect to be happy. 

 Over time, the life I could never quite find seemed to fall right
 into my lap. In business, so often we're taught to CYA [Cover Your
 A--]. Well, I started my own version: Change Your Attitude.

 Today I work with people and organizations who are trying to change
 their attitude and behavior. Many of them, facing their own periods
 of desperation, are wondering if they will ever recover. They will,
 with a change of focus.

 I've discovered that we can all change our lives dramatically for the
 better--and we can do it before the gift of desperation. It takes a
 new sense of focus, and it also takes acting on a few new thoughts:

 # Start each day with an awareness that you are here for a purpose
 other than to satisfy demands to add stuff to your life. I do this
 with a few morning minutes of meditation and prayer. Other people
 read a book or take a walk. After a while, you'll find your own path
 to peace and self-awareness.

 # Make serving others a primary focus. Help someone in your office be
 more successful. Hold the door for someone. Start a mentoring program,
 be a big brother or sister, or call a local volunteering program.

 # Slow down. I was always so busy pushing for the next big break that
 sometimes I ran right past it. So take a few minutes to take a deep
 breath, step back, and enjoy life a bit. You'll be surprised how many
 opportunities personally and professionally just show up.

 # Start now. You don't have to remake your whole life overnight.
 Small changes when practiced consistently will create dramatic
 results. Remember, you're choosing to act--before a "gift of
 desperation" is forced on you. Keep at it and soon you will look back
 and be amazed how far you've come, and so will your coworkers and
 loved ones. And while I may believe in deathbed conversions, acting
 ahead of time is a whole lot more satisfying.

 There's nothing magical about these actions. The results, however,
 from even small consistent actions can be phenomenal, because not
 only will you feel better about yourself, but often your professional
 life will take off, too.

 One Christmas, a group of businesses in Alexandria, Va., got together
 and repaid money stolen from a Salvation Army. The cost per business
 was about $500, but the value to the community they served was a
 hundred times that amount. Managers and employees got out of their
 offices and began to see each other in a new light. They donated time
 and distributed toys. These actions began to create a lot of goodwill
 and press in the community. 

 In the long run, I noticed how much their good works changed the
 companies involved. Morale went right through the roof. Productivity
 and profits went up as well. I know from experience this wasn't a
 coincidence.

 The action taken, willingness to help, and focus on service connected
 these companies, their employees, and the community in a way that far
 outweighed the financial costs.

 In fact, smart companies are increasingly using corporate giving as a
 marketing tool. According to a study published in Business Week,
 two-thirds of consumers would switch to a product or retailer that
 supported a cause they believed in. Likewise, employees of companies
 that promote good causes are likely to feel a strong sense of loyalty
 to their employer.

 It's no secret that high-profile corporate ethics scandals have
 rocked the market and hurt companies large and small. In hard times,
 it's only natural to turn first to reducing charitable contributions
 and employee benefits--and the newspapers are full of depressing
 stories of cutbacks and givebacks.

 Instead of following the crowd, think of the positive public
 attention you can get by increasing your community involvement and
 awareness. Downward economies don't last forever, but the public's
 memory of a good corporate citizen often does. Sometimes it doesn't
 even take money, just the willingness to show up and help.

 Positively motivated people will deliver to the bottom line faster
 than new technology and a slick mission statement, and nothing will
 motive people faster than feeling the company they work for sees them
 and their community as significant.

 Change your own focus, and it's likely you'll also change the way
 your business works.

  私の回答はこちら!
http://eigo.undo.jp/content/view/72/28/

Q1: What do you mean by 'CYA'?

Q2: Please tell me your "Gift of Desperation" that changed you a lot.

Q3: Do you understand this, 'Speak with anyone who has had a
    life-changing experience, and they'll tell you how much it has led
    them to appreciate each and every day. They have a higher sense of
    awareness and focus on living each day with joy'?

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□ 編集後記
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 "Gift of Desperation" (生きるか、死ぬかに直面する機会)で人はかわる。
 私もこのGiftを頂いた。現在もこの贈り物を楽しんでいる。会社を経営して
 もうすぐ2期目が終わる。

 創業期よりも経営状態は良くなっている。

 だが、

 経営が安定しているかといえば、”NO ”だ。毎日が"Gift of Desperation" 
 で朝起きて健康で生きていることをまず感謝している。生きて健康であれば、
 自分の意志で何かをやれる。

 新しいビジネスアイディアがあれば、それを実行できる。今日一日を生きて
 過ごせるだけでも幸せを感じる。生きているというGiftを肌で感じるからだ。

 命さえあれば、健康な体があれば、後は、生きていくためのアクションだけ
 だ。それが分かるには、A "Gift of Desperation" を頂く必要がある。自分
 で求めるか、運命がそうさせるのか、誰かがそう仕向けるか。それは、わか
 らない。

 ただ、

  "Gift of Desperation" は、貴方の人生観を180度変えて、すばらしい人生
  の感じ方を教えてくれる。それは、確かだ。

Hanji

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 ●Writing With Power: Techniques for Mastering the Writing Process
    (ペーパーバック) 
   http://tinyurl.com/27vnoc
   Peter Elbow (著) 

   この本は最近見つけた本だ。Emailで米国の企業とやり取りをする時に
   Writing Skillが求められる。Amazonでこの本の中身の閲覧してほしい。
   なぜ、私がこの本を薦めている理由がわかる。


 ●Ready to Write: A First Composition Text (ペーパーバック) 
    Karen Lourie Blanchard (著) 
  http://tinyurl.com/2s94db

  米国の大学で初めて英語の授業を受けた。まず、習った事は、
  パラグラフの書き方だ。その次が、A41ページのエッセーの書き方だ。
  毎回授業がある度に宿題でエッセーを提出させられた。そして、添削
  された宿題が点数(A, A-, B+, B, B-など)と共に戻ってきた。
  日本で学んだ方法とは、180度違っていた。それが新鮮だった。

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電子出版:  英語/英会話を自分の物にしたい人のための情報発信
発行者:    Norito H.Yoshida
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